The father figure aspect provides a fantasy of absolute safety. In a chaotic world, this man knows what to do. He has resources, experience, and a willingness to get his hands dirty. The attraction is not to the sin, but to the security that his power and sinfulness provide.
Sweetness is the emotional intimacy. It is the forehead kiss. It is the way he remembers how she takes her coffee. This trait humanizes the "Sinner" and makes the "Father Figure" feel emotionally available rather than controlling. sweet sinner father figure hot